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I’m wondering when your children become your friends.

I think it happens gradually – subtle direction changes in conversation, quick snapshots of genuine interest, the odd challenging but respectful question, honest caring, simple “let’s go to a movie together” suggestions, help without asking, phone calls for no reason – little breaths of maturity that I miss if I’m not intentional about looking for them.  I can even sense the change in a text.

You ever get tired of blogging?

“No…I love the challenge and discipline of watching what God is doing in my life. I love learning and I love writing about what I’m learning.”

“Cool!  Love you mom.”

“Thanks – that means so much to me.” 

When my first child was born, someone gave me a rather prophetic card with a simple but memorable message. The card read,”Congratulations on having a baby….life as you once knew it is now over.”  It was so very true. When Dawne was born, my life changed, never to be the same again…and it kept changing when Danae and Drew came along. I remember passing through distinct seasons of life as a woman, wife and mother as the years unfolded. Change was a constant.

My oldest child has made me a grandmother and now I go on adventures with six year old Phoenie, just like I used to do with Dawne, Danae and Drew when they were young. My youngest child is heading to England for law school in the fall and he towers over me as I hug him.

Everyone is all grown up and my relationship with each of them continues to change.

It’s beginning to feel a lot like friendship…

Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh,” he whispered.

“Yes, Piglet”?

“Nothing, said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw, “I just wanted to be sure of you.”      

Winnie the Pooh quote

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  1. Linda

    Isn’t it wonderful to appreciate your children in a new way ~ as friends! We are still their life long coaches and that is something that I love to do. Just be on the sidelines and encourage them to run the race! xo

  2. Debbie

    I just think being a mom is the worlds best vocation!
    Continue to enjoy the ride! Abundant blessings along the way.

    • Kathy

      At first I reas ( on the small print of the iPhone) “I just think that being a mom is the world’s best VACATION.” and I started to laugh. Yes, not a vacation but a very rewarding vocation .
      Motherhood never ends., but changes and teaches you how to live all life.
      I love my three kids and six Grandkids . Each time a new grandchild is born, it is like falling in love again!!! Family!!!

  3. Danae

    🙂

  4. Chris#2

    Good reading…taking your paw…just wanted to be sure of you! xxo

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